Raising Kids in the Culture of the Kingdom
My passion for Jesus was awakened to a radical new degree, [and] I received a revelation of the bigness and greatness of God.

Raising Kids in the Culture of the Kingdom

by Patricia Bootsma
6/16/17 Christian Living

The Moravians, who birthed the eighteenth-century global missions movement from the womb of a night-and-day prayer movement, had a banner cry echoed through the centuries. It was first spoken by some of their young missionaries who sailed to the unreached slaves of the Caribbean island of St. Thomas with the goal of sharing the message of the gospel. As they were on the deck of the ship that would take them to a lifetime of service and sacrifice, distraught family members on shore wept and cried out, “Why are you going?” One of the young missionaries cried out for all to hear, “That the Lamb, who was slain, may receive the reward of His suffering.”

Those words require quiet contemplation to let the full effect reach our hearts. Why did the Lamb of God die? His sacrifice was certainly for our eternal salvation but also for so much more—for victorious, supernatural, abundant life to live and give away. Jesus said, “I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly” (John 10:10).

I believe Jesus wants to get what He paid for, including our children. That means an intimate heart connection with the Lord and a regular expectation of miracles, signs, wonders, and prophetic revelation. We want to live what He died to give.

The Diligence Due Our Children

And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. Deuteronomy 6:6–8

In other words, the Bible gives us a parental directive to ensure that what God has given us is persistently and effectively passed on to our children.

How do we raise children with a culture-of-the-kingdom mindset? Well, first of all, we need to believe it and live it ourselves.

I’ve been privileged along with my husband, John, to be a part of the leadership of a move of God commonly known as the “Toronto Blessing,” or what we would call, “The Father’s Blessing.” The Holy Spirit was poured out in power starting January of 1994. Three million people from many nations came through our doors in the first three years; nightly meetings (except Mondays) went on for twelve years; and there were five thousand salvations in the initial two years with many healed, delivered, and emotionally set free.

The first night there that I was overcome by the power of the Holy Spirit impacted me in a couple of ways. First of all, my passion for Jesus was awakened to a radical new degree. Secondly, I received a revelation of the bigness and greatness of God. Oh, I knew God before, but I had made Him too small in my eyes. I had had lots of prophecies about the future and the things I would see God do. Yet, unbelief plagued me, and my experiences of miracles were too few and far between. This powerful encounter with the Holy Spirit left me with a new realization that nothing, absolutely nothing, was impossible with God. At this time we had two small children (we now have six).  I immediately began to incorporate my newfound revelation into regular family life.

Instead of reaching immediately for Tylenol when one of our children had a headache or fever, we made our first action prayer for healing. We began to see more miracles of healing. When finances seemed stretched beyond our ability to have a vacation, we prayed for and began to see miraculous financial provision. We also taught our kids the biblical mandate of tithing right from early childhood. If they received a five-dollar gift, we helped them set fifty cents aside to give to the Lord. Our children also wrote letters to children who were sponsored in their name. We paid the support, but they wrote the letters and kept up the contact. All of this taught them the importance of giving financially and seeing miracle provision.

(Read more on training your children in our blog “Imparting a Legacy of Prayer.”)

Model Jesus

Helping our children get out of their comfort zones to be used by the Lord for supernatural endeavors will undoubtedly cause us some initial nervousness. Yet, let’s not hold back from encouraging our children to step out and take risks. The model Jesus used applies to parents.

First, demonstrate it yourself; then, do it with them; and lastly, encourage them to do it on their own. For example, my husband and I pray in front of our children for many things including financial provision or miracles of healing. We have often prayed with our children for specific needs they may have, such as new friends or opportunities. Consequently, there are the times when we have seen them take what they have learned and apply it themselves.

When our dog, Micah, had some tumors or growths on his body, the veterinarian thought it was cancer. John and I were thinking in terms of “how much does it cost to euthanize a dog?” Our daughter Zoe would not hear of the possibility of losing the beloved dog, and she began to pray for his healing. At youth group, she would submit a written prayer request each week for her dog to be healed, and she asked all of her friends to pray for him. One day we realized all of the growths were completely gone. That was a dramatic lesson for Zoe of the power of prayer—her own prayers and not those of her parents.

I remember John Wimber, leader of the Vineyard Movement at the time, saying years ago, “You can’t learn how to heal the sick by reading a book or mastering a technique. You believe what Jesus promised, and then you get out and do it.” While praying for people at our church for healings or miracles, my children accompanied me, laying their hands on people as I did. While out and about in daily life, such as at the park or while visiting grandparents, we would take opportunities to pray for the sick. When we lived near a retirement home, I asked permission of the staff to take two of my young children to visit lonely elderly. It was a win-win: the residents loved seeing “cute” kids and received needed visits, and my kids learned to reach out to the needy.

Listening to the voice of God and receiving prophetic revelation became normal Christian life for our children. We taught them to test the prophetic words they received (by way of the still, small voice, thoughts, dreams, visions, pictures, words of knowledge, words of wisdom, angelic encounters) through the lens of Scripture, the character of God, the fruit of the Spirit, and confirmation from other strong believers. We asked them, as soon as they could read and write, to have their own time with God—reading the Bible, praying, and journaling (writing out what they felt God was speaking to them).

And God Brings in the Harvest

As the years progressed, the Lord opened doors for me to speak and minister locally and internationally. As often as I could, I would take one or more children along on a trip. They wouldn’t just come to see another nation; they would also come to minister. Our youngest daughter, Glory Anna, led worship in Belgium at age thirteen. Zoe spoke to the youth in Holland at age seventeen. They have both ministered prophetically to many.

(Read more on empowering your children for ministry in our blog “Cultivating Kids’ Devotion to God.”)

Our son, Judah, was seventeen when he accompanied me to Amsterdam. We were ministering alongside members of the Tabernacle House of Prayer, right in the Red Light District. I asked Judah not to look at the windows containing the girls, but he was still able to lead a few team members in playing worship songs right in the midst of the district. A man came asking them what they were doing. They replied, “Worshiping God.” Then they sang a prophetic song over this man, who started to weep under the power of the Spirit. He gave his life to Jesus that day and said he was returning to the wife and family he had left behind.

Gabrielle was fifteen years old when she started to co-lead an end-time study in our church that people as old as sixty-five attended. I would make room for her to speak in sessions I was teaching—I would take twenty minutes and she would take twenty minutes. She became the favored speaker. Gabrielle is now on staff at IHOPKC along with her husband, leading the evening section in the prayer room and serving as associate director of IHOPU online. Aquila, was on our prophetic team at age twelve, ministering with maturity to many.

Truly, the possibilities are endless to help our kids live a kingdom lifestyle. The first step for parents is to believe for the victorious, supernatural, abundant life, and then begin to live it out by establishing a kingdom culture in the home and letting it go forth to the nations.

What excites you most about building a kingdom culture in your home?


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Patricia Bootsma


  • Sr. Associate Pastor, Catch the Fire Toronto

Patricia Bootsma and her husband, John, are the senior leaders of Catch the Fire Canada. Patricia has been leading houses of prayer for over fifteen years and has a heart for all to walk in passionate love for the Lord and in the fullness of His destiny for them. Patricia is the author of three books: Convergence, Raising Burning Hearts, and A Lifestyle of Divine Encounters. She and John are parents (of six amazing children) as well as grandparents.

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